Life Lately: Where We’ve Planted & What’s Bloomed

Hi friends — it’s been a while, hasn’t it?

If you’ve been around since the early days of Planting Our Poppy Seeds, you probably remember this space started during one of the most tender seasons of my life: our fertility journey. It was a time of ultrasounds, injections, hope, heartbreak, and holding on to the tiniest glimmer of possibility — sometimes no bigger than a poppy seed.

Fast forward to today, and I’m writing this with a Diet Coke in hand, a marketing strategy open in another tab, and two amazing little boys (ages 7 and 5) currently obsessed with Minecraft and asking for snacks every 30 minutes. Life is full — messy, beautiful, loud, and full.

2020: the year we completed our family

My husband and I got married back in January 2015, and our family grew thanks to the science and miracle of IVF. Our oldest came from our very first cycle — we transferred two embryos, one stuck, and nine months later we welcomed our sweet boy. Our youngest is our COVID baby, transferred from our batch of frozen embryos. He was the strongest of the group and made himself at home on the very first try. I had some early bleeding scares, but both pregnancies were healthy, both boys were overdue, and despite dealing with PCOS fertility issues, I’m proud to say I had natural deliveries and breastfed each of them for a full year (with a lot of late-night snacks and Netflix marathons to survive those feeds).

After baby number two turned one, I transitioned back into work life. I had spent 13 years in radio promotions — hello, contests, concerts, and 4 a.m. remote setups — before moving into my current role as Marketing Manager for a rental services company. It’s a different kind of hustle, but I love it.

Renewing our vows at our 10 years anniversary

Outside of work, I live for home-cooked meals, volleyball nights, slow-pitch weekends, paddle boarding afternoons, road trips, and family camping adventures — bonus points if there’s a lake and zero cell service.

But if there’s one thread that’s stayed constant, it’s this: my PCOS journey.

It’s been 10 years of trial and error, of weight gain and loss (and gain again), of learning about hormones, supplements, blood sugar, and how different my body works. I’m still in it. Still learning. Still trying. Still planting seeds — of patience, of strength, of healing.

These days, Planting Our Poppy Seeds has grown into something more than fertility talk. It’s about everyday wellness, mom-life chaos, and learning how to take care of myself while raising good humans. My hope is that you find something here that helps — a tip, a product, a laugh, or just the reminder that you’re not alone in this.

Thanks for sticking with me through the seasons — the ones that bloomed, the ones that wilted, and the ones still sprouting.

Here’s to planting what matters — and watching it grow. 🌱

Egg Retrieval Experience

Let’s start off with a quick update because I know it’s been just over a month since my last post – July was so busy – and people are very curious to know where things stand and how the retrieval went.

In my last post I was talking about how over stimulated I was and that my ovaries were literally the size of oranges. Due to that, we unfortunately were not able to go forward with an embryo transfer this cycle because if I were to become pregnant I would have gone into a severe state of OHSS and would have likely been hospitalized and in even more pain. The good news? We did remove lots of eggs, had a bunch fertilize and after 6 days of growing, we were able to freeze 5 healthy embryos.

As for the egg retrieval process itself, well, it was not quite what I expected it to be. I assumed I would go in very anxious but by time the day came I was quite calm. I was ready for the pressure I was feeling from my giant ovaries to be over but boy, I had no idea what I was in for.

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Where To Now?

It’s been a few weeks since my last post. Thank you to everyone who has stopped me and said a kind word and for your prayers and well wishes. You are all part of a wonderful support system for hubby and I and we truly appreciate you all as we begin our next chapter.

If you’ve been following our story then you know DH and I are onto the next step in our fertility journey; IVF. Earlier this year we were referred to the Regional Fertility Program (RFP) in Calgary. Thankfully our wait wasn’t too long, less than 3 months and we were headed up to Calgary for our initial appointments.

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Welcome To Our Infertile Life… Part 3

There are a lot of details to cover in our 2 year journey to conceive and this is Part 3 of our story. If you haven’t had a chance yet, make sure you check out Part 1 and 2.

So to catch you up, by the end of June 2016, I had been diagnosed with PCOS and we had already tried 2 cycles of Clomid, 2 cycles of Femara, and one IUI using Femara and Menopur; all of which ended with zero pregnancies. I was feeling pretty defeated but was trying my hardest to stay positive that one of these cycles would work and we would finally become parents.

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Welcome To Our Infertile Life… Part 2

Welcome to Part 2 of our story. If you’re new to the blog and haven’t read Part 1 yet, you can do that here.

Horror. Shock. Dismay. All the things I felt immediately after receiving the news that I had PCOS and how we would have to work that much harder to get pregnant. Dr. P was very kind though and took the time to explain what all this meant and outlined the path we would take. He never doubted that it would happen for us and his unwavering support helped replace some of the negative feelings I was having with hope. Hope of what was to come, hope the upcoming treatment would work, and hope that eventually we would be parents.

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